Stop Saying “Hey Hey” — Learn How to Communicate Like an Adult. Let’s talk about communication — because some of you are failing terribly. You can’t just text someone “Hey” and then sit there waiting for destiny to unfold. That’s not communication. That’s confusion in progress. You send: “Hi.” Then five minutes later: “Hey.” Then another hour later: “Oya.” Bro, what are you trying to say? Even the Holy Spirit can’t interpret that message. Let me be honest — if your messages start with “hey hey h